My friend Jeff is a serial entrepreneur. He’s made and lost a few fortunes personally. He even went bankrupt. But he’s always been wealthy. Even when when he didn’t have a penny. And those in his orbit are wealthier for knowing him.
What is true wealth? If you ask most people the automatic response goes to assets such as money in the bank, real estate, investments, business interests, stocks, bonds, and all manner of things one finds on a balance sheet. These are financial assets. If you pose the question more emphatically, like, “what is the most important asset you possess in this world?” the answer immediately flips to one’s family or health or community, church, neighbors, best friends; all things human and relational. Then you add the intellectual assets including one’s education, experience, reputation, skills, business connections and competence. These things all add up to what truly makes a human being wealthy. This is a new way of defining a balance sheet, with financial assets, human assets, and intellectual assets.
My observation in Jeff’s case is realizing that he went bankrupt in the financial section of his “true wealth” balance sheet. But he made it all back. That is, the money and the house and the “stuff.” His financial bankruptcy didn’t touch his other asset classes. He was exceptionally wealthy in family, faith, friends, integrity, ambition, confidence, knowledge, reputation, business acumen, competence, trust, relationships, and on and on.
Most recently he was moved by the evils of sex trafficking, abuse, and slave trade of innocent young prepubescent girls used by lustful, greedy, despicable, soulless men. His current business endeavor is providing jobs, resources, protection, and hope to these poor victims.
It’s a mission of compassion and giving. It is fraught with risk, heartbreak, danger, and threats. But the rewards are extreme; the smallest is financial.
I’ve lived most of my life in Oregon. Birth and the first ten years were in Nebraska, but my parents and eight kids jumped on the Oregon Trail and never looked back. I grew up skiing the volcanoes of the Cascade Mountain range; hiking and fishing the high lakes and endless rivers and streams, exploring the Oregon Coast, making hay in the summers and feeding it in the winters, riding horses, and building muscle cars. After high school I spent six years in the US Navy, which included extensive travels around Europe, Asia, and South America. I then spent four years in college, which included international study in Latin America (Ecuador and Peru.) My professional career started with a Fortune 50 company, which included a stint in London as a broker in Lloyd’s. College years re-connected me with my beautiful brown-eyed girl from a rural Oregon community where we met when we were ages 12 and 14; now married 28 years.
We’ve now lived 20 years in Lake Oswego, Oregon where we raised three crazy, wonderful, bright, beautiful kids, all of whom are scholar athletes. Our oldest daughter, an All-American track athlete, competed four years at Duke; the second, a D1 women’s soccer goalie at Butler University, was on the Big East Championship team, now pours her heart into Athletes in Action at Oregon State; and our son is presently a pole vaulter and graphic design major at Northwest Nazarene. What a trip!
I spend much of my time helping owners of well-established, thriving businesses plan and execute ownership transitions. There’s nothing better than keeping a good business in business, maintaining good jobs for great employees so they can raise kids, pay mortgages, and contribute to the whole incredible economic machine. I’m still happily growing and serving after all these years. God, I love it so!
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